At the Office, from the Book of Misunderstandings
After the meeting during which A., an electrical engineer, presented her detailed plan for the company’s next initiative, she overheard a product manager, B., in the corridor ridiculing a proposal and assumed he was deriding hers whereas, in fact, it was a hare-brained notion the industrial chemist C. had come up with over drinks the night before, and which, of course, had not been mentioned at the meeting. B. thought A.’s innovative idea remarkably good, but he did not speak up during the meeting because he was unqualified to assess its technical aspects but still more because he was attracted to A. and did not wish to appear to be ingratiating himself.
When they ran into each other in the cafeteria the next day, and B. began to compliment her, A. thought he was mocking her and gave him short shrift. After that, whenever B. addressed her, A. either pretended not hear him or replied curtly. Meanwhile, A. took every opportunity to denigrate B. to their colleagues. When he was told what A. was saying to others about him — such things are sure to make the rounds — B. was taken aback but reluctantly concluded that A. had conceived an antipathy for him; and, because the presentation which he had found so admirable had won her the ear of the higher-ups, she was in a position to do him harm, perhaps even get him dismissed. B. resolved to take measures to protect himself.
In this way, a genuine enmity grew up between A. and B. who, but for an unfortunate misapprehension, might, given that they were both young, unattached, and good-looking, have discovered that they were fond of Asian cuisine, skiing, large dogs, Russian novels, and French cabaret music; they could have started dating, become a couple, might have married, had children, supported one another in their careers, faced the vicissitudes of life together, and lived contentedly together for decades. Instead, their animosity grew to such a degree that they not only disparaged one another but recruited allies, establishing factions, and generated so much discord in the firm that, notwithstanding their excellent qualities, worthy contributions, and promising futures, their work and that of others suffered and, for the sake of amity and productivity, management finally determined that the best thing would be to let them both go.
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